Wednesday, May 2, 2012

She's Back....

I have taken a long break from writing but I think it's time that I invite you all back into my world. I have so many cluttered thoughts to share. Stay tuned....

Thursday, September 23, 2010

The Sweetest Seduction...

The best lovemaking a woman can have with a man is through his mind. When you make love to a Man's mind, you become "one" with his inner-being. Once you have achieved that connection, it's rarely broken.
We as women often use our bodies and "physical capabilities" to seek that "oneness". What are we left with when it's all said and done? In most cases, we are left STILL unsatisfied because we are lacking something. We could have what we though was a great relationship, but our man cheats or leaves. We bat ourselves up wondering WHY!!! WHY did he leave? WHY did he cheat? WHY does he want her? WHY? WHY? WHY? Let me tell you why...
A man desires a woman who can become "one" with him in ALL areas. He desires a a woman who understands, listens, relates, and can help him reach (what I call) A MENTAL ORGASM!! The best way to achieve all these areas, is to save the "physical satisfaction" for the FINALE lol. Yes, I know it's extremely difficult at times but if you TRULY intend to make this man yours forever, then you MUST take into consideration what I am saying. IF NOT, DO YO THANG SHAWTY! lol
I'm not going to give you details or step by step but I am here to give you a HINT! Once you make love to his mind(intriguing conversations, compliment him,encourage him etc.) the rest will fall into place. He will not only love you, he will be your bestfriend, and he will be yours FOREVER! Now lets be clear, when I say forever I am referring to always playing a role in his life. You will always be in his heart (even if yall dont work out). IF your lucky you may get "that ring"! You have to be willing to put in that work! His MIND is the FIRST step...

Taste my Thoughts,
Honey Sinclair

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

The First Taste...

Wouldn't you agree that the FIRST taste of you food is always the best? Do you chew extra slow?

Have you ever eaten something and the FIRST bite was fantastic but then after a while you were left with an ugly after taste? Hmmmmmm ever wonder why you didn't stop after the first bite? This is how we should view every relationship in our lives. Let me explain:

THE GOSSIPING HOMEGIRL
- She gives you info and you feed off of it. You begin to engage in a conversation that could very well leave with you with an unpleasant taste. At first, you're intrigued by the info she is giving you but then you realize "damn her ass may be telling my business to the next chick". Instead of stopping at that first taste, you engage in conversations, emails and texts about HER friends business. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HER FRIENDS DONT KNOW YOUR BUSINESS? In the end, you're left hurt and you only have yourself to blame.... Watch who you tell your business to, everyone is not your friend. It may seem pleasant at the beginning but trust the after taste is sometimes unbearable!

THE MAN WITH RED FLAGS
- Time and time again we find ourselves in hurtful broken relationships. Did you not recognize the signs? You start off with (first taste) a fun and exciting NEW experience but somewhere in there you knew you had a weird taste. For example, a man is doing everything right (dates, manners, etc) but then you notice a weird feeling, almost as if you KNOW something is wrong about him. Then, BAM he lays it on ya! He doesn't want a relationship. You stick around hoping that he would change his mind. Ummmm HELLO the man was straight up with you. In the end, you are lonely and broken hearted. Left with that disgusting taste... Who do you have to blame? The first bite was good, then the weird TASTE came along and YOU KEPT EATING!!! SPit it out and move on...

I could go on and on with examples but I think you get my point. We must go through our lives aware of the "BAD AFTER TASTE". If you allow people to come in your life and leave you with nothing but regret (after taste), it's YOUR FAULT! Instead of ignoring signs, be mindful, recognize and move forward (spit it out). The first taste is always good but it's sometimes intended for just that ONE BITE! Don't you love the taste of sweet fruit? Stop allowing people or situations in your life that aren't fruitful! SPIT IT OUT....


Until Next time,
Honey Sinclair <3